Thinking about a boudoir session? You’re not alone if you feel a little nervous. Most women do.

But here’s what I want you to know: boudoir photography isn’t about posing like a model or looking like someone else. It’s about celebrating who you are right now.

I’m a Lafayette boudoir photographer who’s guided plenty of women through this experience. Every single one walked away feeling more confident than when they arrived.

Let me walk you through what really happens at a boudoir session.

Before Your Session

Booking & Consultation

We’ll chat about your goals. Are these photos for your partner? For yourself? A gift for a special occasion? Understanding your why helps me create the right experience.

We’ll talk about outfits, locations, and the overall vibe you want. Romantic and soft? Bold and fierce? You get to choose.

Prepping for Your Session

Skincare: Drink lots of water the week before. Get a good night’s sleep. Skip new skincare products that might cause breakouts.

Wardrobe: I’ll help you choose flattering options during our consultation. Bring more than you think you’ll need.

Mindset: This is the most important prep. Remember why you’re doing this. You deserve to feel beautiful.

The Day of Your Session

Hair & Makeup

Professional hair and makeup artists make a huge difference. They’ll enhance your natural beauty and help you feel pampered from the start.

This part takes about 90 minutes. Perfect time to relax and get in the right headspace.

How the Session Flows

We start with simple poses to warm up. I’ll guide every movement, every expression. You don’t need modeling experience.

I play music you love. We chat between shots. I’ll show you photos on the back of my camera so you can see how amazing you look.

The whole shoot takes 2-3 hours, but it never feels rushed.

What to Bring

Must-Haves:

• Lingerie that fits well and makes you feel great
• Comfortable heels (bring multiple pairs)
• Jewelry that means something to you
• Your favorite lipstick for touch-ups

Fun Options:

• A button-down shirt (looks great partly unbuttoned)
• Cozy sweater or robe
• Items with personal meaning (wedding ring, grandmother’s pearls)

Most Important:

Your confidence. And maybe a supportive friend if that helps you feel more comfortable.

During the Shoot

I’ll direct everything. How to angle your body. Where to look. How to hold your hands. You just follow my lead.

We take breaks when you need them. Snacks and water are always available.

The best photos happen when you stop overthinking and start enjoying yourself. I’ll help you get there.

After the Session

You’ll see a sneak peek within 24 hours. Your full gallery arrives within 2 weeks.

We’ll schedule a viewing session to go through your images together. You can order prints, albums, or digital files based on what feels right for you.

Tips for a Great Boudoir Experience

Trust your photographer. I’ve done this hundreds of times. Let me guide you to poses that flatter your body.

Wear what makes you feel incredible. If you feel amazing in it, you’ll look amazing in photos.

Don’t overthink it. The magic happens when you relax and let your personality shine.

Remember your why. You’re celebrating yourself. That’s something worth documenting.

FAQs About Boudoir Sessions

Q: Do I have to wear lingerie? A: Not at all. Wear whatever makes you feel confident. Some clients wear jeans and a cute bra. Others prefer elegant robes.

Q: Will you retouch my images? A: I do light retouching to enhance your natural beauty. I won’t change who you are.

Q: Can I bring a friend? A: Absolutely, if it helps you feel more comfortable. Sometimes that extra support makes all the difference.

Q: What if I don’t like how I look in photos? A: I’ve never had a client leave unhappy. My job is to capture your beauty, and I take that seriously.

Q: Are boudoir sessions just for young women? A: Not at all! I photograph women of all ages. Beauty doesn’t have an expiration date.

Final Thoughts

Boudoir photography celebrates you exactly as you are right now. Not 10 pounds from now. Not after you get your hair done differently. Right now.

Every woman deserves to see herself as beautiful. Sometimes it takes stepping in front of a camera to remember that truth.

You’re braver than you think. And more beautiful than you know.

Ready to Celebrate Yourself?

If you’re ready to celebrate yourself with a boudoir experience, let’s chat about making it happen. I’ll guide you through every step and make sure you feel comfortable and confident.

Contact me today to start planning your boudoir session.